We help men break free from porn addiction and sexual behaviors while helping couples rebuild trust, restore connection, and move toward real healing together.
Porn and Sexual Brokenness
Porn and Sexual Brokenness Don’t Stay Contained. They Reshape Your Marriage
As a Certified Husband Material Coach, I help men break free from porn addiction, sex addiction, and unwanted sexual behaviors by getting underneath the patterns that keep them stuck. But this isn’t just an individual issue. When sexual brokenness enters a marriage, it creates distance, erodes trust, and leaves both spouses carrying pain in very different ways. Too often, the betrayed spouse is left feeling alone, confused, and under-supported in a process that focuses almost entirely on the one who acted out. At Growing In Marriage, we come alongside both husband and wife. We create a space where honesty is met with clarity, where pain is taken seriously, and where both spouses are equipped with the tools, guidance, and support needed to heal. If this is part of your story, it’s already costing more than it seems on the surface. We help couples face what’s been hidden, rebuild trust, and move toward real freedom, emotionally, spiritually, and in their day-to-day relationship.
Hi, I'm Rich!
As a Certified Husband Material Coach, I help men break free from porn addiction, sex addiction, and unwanted sexual behaviors by getting underneath the patterns that keep them stuck.
If this is showing up in your marriage, we should talk.
You don’t have to have it all figured out before reaching out.
We’ll meet you where you are and help you make sense of what’s happening.
Even taking this step is a move toward something better.
You don’t have to have it all figured out before reaching out.
We’ll meet you where you are and help you make sense of what’s happening.
Even taking this step is a move toward something better.
You’ve tried to stop the behavior, but it keeps coming back
You feel stuck between guilt, frustration, and not knowing what to do next
Trust has been damaged, and you don’t know how to rebuild it
Conversations turn into shutdowns, defensiveness, or going in circles
You feel alone in this, even though you’re both affected
You want change, but you don’t know what actually works
If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.
And you’re not stuck.
You already know this is a problem. Maybe you’ve tried to stop. Maybe you’ve made promises you meant in the moment but couldn’t keep. Porn addiction, sex addiction, and unwanted sexual behaviors don’t just go away with willpower, and they don’t stay contained. They follow you into your marriage, your conversations, your intimacy, and your sense of who you are as a man. And whether it’s been said out loud or not, it’s already creating distance between you and your spouse.
At Growing In Marriage, we help men get honest about what’s really driving the pattern, not just manage the behavior. This isn’t about shame. It’s about ownership, clarity, and learning how to respond differently when it actually matters. And because this impacts your marriage, we don’t leave your spouse on the outside of the process. We help both of you understand what’s happening, what it’s doing to your relationship, and how to start rebuilding trust in a real way.
For the Husband
If this is showing up in your marriage,
we should talk.
If you’ve been impacted by your spouse’s porn use, sex addiction, or other unwanted sexual behaviors, you already know how disorienting it can feel. The questions, the second-guessing, the loss of trust, it doesn’t stay contained to one area of your marriage. It touches everything. And too often, the focus shifts almost entirely to your spouse’s struggle, while you’re left trying to make sense of the pain on your own.
At Growing In Marriage, we believe your experience matters just as much. You deserve support, clarity, and a place to process what this has been like for you without being rushed, minimized, or overlooked. We come alongside both of you, helping you understand what’s happened, what it’s doing to your marriage, and what healing can actually look like, not just for him, but for you and for the relationship as a whole.
FOR THE WIFE
If this is showing up in your marriage,
we should talk.
Most couples try to handle this on their own. They focus on stopping the behavior, avoiding the topic, or trying to move past it without fully understanding what’s actually happening underneath.
Most couples don’t come to coaching feeling confident or certain. One spouse is often more ready than the other. Many couples worry coaching will just mean more talking without real change. We understand that hesitation, and we don’t rush past it.
Why This Doesn’t Just Fix Itself
Why This Doesn’t Just Fix Itself
But without clarity, the pattern continues.
Without support, the distance grows.
This isn’t just about behavior. It’s about trust, safety, and how you both show up in the relationship.
How We Help
- Identify the patterns and behaviors that keep you stuck in the cycle
- Understand what’s actually driving the behavior and the cycle around it
- Learn how to communicate without escalating or shutting down
- Rebuild trust through consistent, meaningful actions
- Support both spouses so no one feels overlooked in the process
- Strengthen emotional and spiritual connection as you move forward
At Growing In Marriage, we help you:
Whether you’re coming on your own or together, you don’t have to figure this out alone.
Coaching That Meets You Where You Are
Coaching That Meets You Where You Are
FOR MEN:
FOR COUPLES:
Some people start individually. Others come in as a couple.
If you’re struggling with porn addiction, sex addiction, or unwanted sexual behaviors, we work one-on-one to help you understand the patterns, take ownership, and begin building real freedom.
If this has already impacted your marriage, we come alongside both of you to rebuild trust, improve communication, and help you move forward together.
Both are welcome here.
We’re not here to shame you.
We’re not here to take sides.
We’re not here to rush the process.
What It Feels Like to Work With Us
We create a space where both of you can be honest about what’s really going on, understand each other more clearly, and start responding differently where it matters most.
We’re not here to shame you.
We’re not here to take sides.
We’re not here to rush the process.
You deserve to be married to your best friend!
What It Feels Like to Work With Us
We create a space where both of you can be honest about what’s really going on, understand each other more clearly, and start responding differently where it matters most.
If You’re Unsure, That’s Okay
This is a simple first conversation to understand what’s going on and how we can help. No pressure. No judgment. Just a clear next step forward.
You don’t have to keep carrying this by yourself.
If this is showing up in your marriage, we should talk.
